Lingerie vs. Candy on Valentine's Day

When it comes to Valentine's Day, most husbands go into a tailspin trying to decide on the best choice of gifts for their wives. Candy, cards and flowers are some of the most common items purchased by men. Certainly it is easy for guys to walk into a store and purchase a box of chocolates or a card. The lazy guy can call a florist and have it delivered. Most men enjoy sexy lingerie, but few dare enter a store to purchase these lustful stimulating under things. Men know that purchasing lingerie can be risky. Here are some things to consider when deciding between lingerie, candy or even both.

Choosing CandyCandy is a personal preference. First remember that you're purchasing this candy for your wife. If she doesn't like nuts, don't buy a box of chocolates where half the container is filled with them. Candy is certainly a gift that you can both share, but the thought during the time of purchase should always be for your spouse first.
Valentine's Day is also when you should consider shopping for candy outside of the local grocery or convenience store. Find a local specialty candy shop or chocolatier near you.

There, you can find many unique and specialized goodies, such as Champagne chocolate truffles. Don't be discouraged by the price of some of these either. Two or three high quality, personally selected pieces of candy or chocolate says much more than a box of pre-packaged no-thought chocolate. Having just a few items will also force you to savor and enjoy each bite and the moment.

Lastly, don't forget that presentation matters. Most specialty shops will be able to place your candy in an esthetically pleasing container, if not, go out and find one. To earn bonus points, you can create your own special box-perhaps wrapped with pictures of you can your wife-and place the candy inside. Many husbands might choose candy because of the convenience of grabbing a box and checking out. You can be exceptional this year by hand selecting a few special pieces of sugary goodness and adding a bottle a bottle of Champagne or wine to wash things down.
by Dr. Lionel Bissoon